Romantic Advices Please?

I love a girl who's with another guy. She seemed to be very attracted to me. She chose him over me. Maybe the sensible thing to do is to forget about her, but I haven't for numerous reasons. I feel the comparison wasn't fair because when we met shed been with him for 4 years and was pretty committed and they live together in another country. Also she's a really nervous girl, has suffered with panic attacks and anxiety and its hard to read her sometimes. But I love her, achingly, desperately. At the moment we email a lot and its good. I'm going on a study exchange to her country next year and i really hope something will develop between us. I feel really cut up like part of me wants to keep my distance and be there for her but the other part of me wants to marry her today. So yer, advice? More infos, we never slept together but we kissed a few times and were very close friends. She said she fantasised about sleeping with me but couldnt cheat her bf. So yeah input welcomeRomantic Advices Please?
well, all you can do is to fantasized about her too but be adviced that the reality was far way different from reality.





if you love her, just wait.Romantic Advices Please?
stay away, just be friends! what would you do if you found out you girlfriend of 4 years was kissen on another guy?
You're pouring your heart into a painful cause.





She already has a man. Her reasons for choosing him over you are none of your concern.





The reason she's not with you is because she feels more connected and intimate with her BF than with you. Girls go for the guys they feel the strongest connection with.





This trip sounds like trouble. You're going to study and explore a country...not try to hook up with someone.





You can't 'wish away' your feelings, but understand that you HAVE to be prepared that she may not return your love. Are you ready for that? Even when/if she breaks up with her current BF, she still may not choose you.





Get involved with some other activities in your life that don't include her in them. Almost importantly, MEET and DATE other women!





I don't want to hear that she's the only one and you can't stop thinking about her bullcrap as an excuse either. She's with someone else, so things can't get that serious.





If a time comes when she's available to date you and chooses to, she'll let you know. Until then, live your life the way you want.
You're the other guy. I'm sorry, but she chose her boyfriend over you. You don't seem to be satisfied with just part of her - so you have one of three choices. One, you can keep things the way they are and pine away for her aimlessly. Two, you can confront her about this predicament and ask her to choose between you and her boyfriend. Or three, you can stop emailing her and do you best to move on and forget. If I were you, and a guy had been showing me obvious attention yet was with another girl, I would confront him. It's the cleanest option. Don't worry about her panic attacks and anxiety - you'll be getting the same things soon if you don't do something.
no no no no no, you should never ever think about marrying a girl like that because in 4 years time she will do it to you if it even lasted that long (obvious trust issues). She has already cheated on her bf with you and believe me if it was the other way round, a girl would definatly see kissing as cheating. she admits that she fantasises about you, if i was in your shoe's and i was in control of my emotions which clearly your not and she was fit i would rinse her but not go out with her ever!!!!