Wednesday, December 23, 2009

My husband is so completely NOT romantic. Any advice on how to help him out in this department? Help!?

guys typically don't continue to try to be romantic like us ladies would like. You have to do it yourself unfortunately. Plan things for the 2 of you to do together and maybe even tell him you would like for him to be a little more romantic. men just don't read between the linesMy husband is so completely NOT romantic. Any advice on how to help him out in this department? Help!?
Honestly...


You married an unromantic guy.


There is no switch you can flip to turn on his romantic side - because he has no romantic side.


Love means acceptance.


Make peace with this - don't be disappointed or point fingers at him.





You married him knowing this right?





If you want romance, you will need to be the planner of everything and make it happen.





Best wishes.My husband is so completely NOT romantic. Any advice on how to help him out in this department? Help!?
Well, you can't change him and he didn't get that way overnight. I'm sure he was the same when you were dating, but you married him anyway. Just deal with it. Love him madly.
Yeah get him a 24 of Bud and he will love you forever
i have atendency to think that guys are either romantics types ...or they aren't. No advice here ..sorry and good luck!
Have you heard that men are different from women? Don't expect him to be like you. He thinks that because he works and pays bills and mows the lawn (or whatever) that he is showing his love. That is a male way of thinking. Women think of things differently. Don't try to make him like you. You won't like what you get.
HD: That advice does not work. I've done so much romantic stuff for my husband. For ever 20 things I do he does 1....it drives me crazy!!!!! Keep asking him....he will start to feel bad and do something sweet.





Let me know if you find anything that works.
Be romantic yourself....maybe he'll get the hint and pick up a few pointers!
YOU do something he would never expect...something he would love.
Some men think it's not manly to be romantic. Explain to him exactly what you need and if he isn't willing to try, tell him you think you need marriage counseling. Some men will be more romantic rather than go to marriage counseling. :0)
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