Romantic Getaway Crash and Burn Quick, Need Advice?

Been searching for Mr Right Forever, Land a romantic getaway weekend with a man that seems to be everything Ive been looking for, The weekend is wonderful, relaxing, romantic, everything Ive always dreamed. On the drive home, he is on a phone call with his sons mom and tells her he loves her too before hanging up the telephone, CRASH, what do I do? where do I stand? wow........Romantic Getaway Crash and Burn Quick, Need Advice?
You are the new girl in his life- you have to build a relationship with him. However he %26amp; his sons' mom have history with each other (including sex)...Don't get bummed out just yet %26amp; think it's over with...But you need to be careful %26amp; not fall too hard for this guy untill you find out where the'; other women'; fits in -in his heart. She will always mean somethig to him (mother of his child you know)... but still he could love you more in the romantic way. You've just got to do the best you can %26amp; see what happens... Good luck to you!Romantic Getaway Crash and Burn Quick, Need Advice?
It could have been a slip up on his part.... maybe she's super insecure... or maybe he was telling her so she'd tell the son. Whatever the case, have an honest discussion with him. Let him know that it hurt your feelings and made you feel like he wasn't really interested in you.


chances are it was a slip up, if not he's not ';Mr. Right'; for you hon.
first make sure that you heard right? that he loves her too or he has love for her. There are two seperate things. and wait if he has kids is he seperated or divorced or what? you should have known on the wifey status in the beginging before anything ever happened. But if in fact he does love her then there isn't really anything that you can do. he has kids with this female and if he's playing her for you then what makes you think he wont do the same thing to you? this guy sounds like scum and if i were you i'd get real clear with him real quick cause you don't want to be second to someone that is first in line to you.
i must say ur just in fantasy land keep on deamin honey!
Don't read too much into it, could be just a habitual expression. I told my secretary 'love you too' when hanging up the phone, with my wife in the car. See what happens next, and that will give you a better indication of where your relationship is going.
You need to get out of this now. It is obvious that there is something still going on between him and his sons mother. get out before you really get hurt.This other woman is going to be a part of his life forever, so unless you want to always have questions in your mind, get out. you will find the right guy. eventually. just stop trying so hard.
The only way to know for sure is to ask him where you stand and where this is going. Be prepared to hear something you might not want to hear though. He could still love his wife but not in that romantic way...you just don't or won't know until you ask him about it. Did she know he went away with you? If so, I'm betting they're just still close and care about one another but not in love with one another. Plus, he took YOU on a trip. You have nothing to lose by asking him, and if you do hear what you don't want to hear, at least you found out sooner before later and at least you got to go on a wonderful trip and have a nice time with someone fun. Good luck!
STOP RIGHT THERE!!!!!! Put an end to your worries fast.... Some people use this word more freely than others. Don't you think that if he really really loved her that he would be with her. So, just go ask him if he's in love with her. You'll feel better just knowing and not worrying about it.