Romantic advice..........maybe?

when i try to flirt with my wife i tend to get pushed away. she says that i try to hard.......not sure how though. I haven't changed anything since the day i met her. what should i do to be able to flirt without being pushed away?Romantic advice..........maybe?
I've found that guessing is a terrible way to resolve things like this and that a simple, honest conversation would do you both wonders. There may be some reason that things have changed and it is in both your interests to get it resolved...and quickly...so that you can get your groove on again.Romantic advice..........maybe?
Good bit of advice...


Dont flirt... Dont give attention.... Instead of trying it on... Just try this





am... Get up shower... eat breakfast... go to work..........


pm... come home from work... Shower.... go out and work on the car... mow the lawn.... or... start a bit of gardening....





keep this up for at least a month... Talk to her still though... and be polite... just dont try anything sexual... if you normaly kiss her before work do so... if she pulls away.. dont..., dont give her any contact like that at all....





If she keeps up with this attitude... confront her about it!!


Just plainly say ';What the hell do you want from me????';





Women are bloody anoying sometimes...





If it doesnt work... tell her you want a divorce... Most people say that to the woman... Lets be the first!!





If she doesnt give you the attention, and there is nothing you have done wrong...





aka if you just killed her pet rabbit... that aint gonna be a good start!
I would quit flirting for a while. And then after a while she'll miss how you tried to flirt with her and want you to flirt with her again.


I hope that helps


Good Luck!
Find out what kind of flirting she likes. You're in a relationship, that means... yes, I'm going to say it, even though you're a guy, you need to open up to her, communicate with her. If she's a human female, most likely she will appreciate it and then you'll know what she does/doesn't like and maybe even strengthen your relationship.
The trouble is your not doing anything different from when you met ! Try something different , be less aggressive , Hell she has you now , and she wants a little variety ... Flirting was great for dating and wooing , now , it's time to keep the marriage young and sweet .. Surprise her with dinner at the nearest restaurant , a walk in the park , carriage ride , drive - in movies , run the bath for her and load the bed room up with scented candles , chilled bottle of champagne and chocolate covered strawberries ... Let your imagination Fly !!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
Well...if you ';haven't changed anything since the day'; you met her, I would definitely say that's THE PROBLEM!! LOL. Women like something to look forward to ;). How you flirted with her in the beginning may have gotten her, but now you have keep her! Your wife's needs have changed and you have to find out what she likes. As silly as it may sound, I get turned on by watching my husband cook...clean the dishes,etc. Sometimes, it's what you do indirectly that makes the difference. Dont' be so ';over eager';. Listen to her...observe and be teachable!
maybe she has alot going on with herself. because i am like you, i don't think flirting would be trying to hard. trying to hard for what? to please her, to make her happy, to give you guys something to laugh about? have you talked to her...communication is always key
Talk to her, and tell her how you feel. The ONLY way he's going to know is if you talk with her.
stop flirting with her. maybe you are flirting too much, and too much is annoying.
Take it down a few notches. If you're trying too hard, it comes off as insincere.





If you try to act like the soap opera guys and make unrealistic romantic declarations, it doesn't make a woman feel special, just creeped out.





Ask her specifically what she wants and maybe she'll tell you. Or maybe she'll say what creeps her out.
Stop flirting. If all she can do is complain, stop.
Stop flirting with her and start doing a 24 hour fourplay. Meaning, make her coffee in the morning and bring it to her. Draw her nightly bath, leave her a note in her purse, call her in the middle of the day to say hello. Help with the dishes, take a walk together hand and hand. This is what will stop her from pushing you away.
she may want to be a little alone. don't flirt for now, she'll come back to you.
Try something new ask your friends how they flirt, its sounds pathetic, but they can help, just dont be too pushy.
Ask her out on a date. Try to recreate your first date. Do something nice for her around the house. Something that she has been wanting you to do for a while. Don't focus on the physical all the time.
Ignore her , It sounds harsh but it seems that giving her attention is turning her off. Since she says that you're trying to hard then stop trying and see what happens. It's like playing hard to get.